Nainen kärsi keskenmenon karanteenissa sairaalassa – joutui synnyttämään kuolleen lapsensa yksin

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Nicole Flink
 
13 toukokuun, 2020
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Synnytys on varmasti yksin rankimmista ja palkitsevimmista hetkistä naisen elämässä. Moni synnyttäjä toivoo kumppaninsa, äitinsä tai ystävänsä olevan tukena koko synnytyksen ajan.

Yhdysvaltalainen Ashley LeMieux ei saanut kokea normaalia raskautta ja synnytystä. 33-vuotias kirjailija joutui synnyttämään lapsensa yksin ilman minkäänlaista tukea.

Ashley oli 16. raskausviikolla tuntiessaan kovaa vatsakipua. Odottava äiti oli hyvin peloissaan. Hän oli niin kovasti toivonut lasta miehensä kanssa.

Vatsakivut pahenivat entisestään ja Ashley kiidätettiin sairaalaan tutkimuksiin. Hänen miehensä joutui pysymään ulkopuolella koronapandemian ja suuren tartuntariskin vuoksi. Tapauksesta on uutisoinut Cafe Mom -sivusto.

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Hey Z, I can’t wait to tell the baby all about it’s older, courageous sister. ❤️ Z, you’re the one who taught me how to have courage. You taught me that courage starts small, and that’s how you know it’s real and there to stay. How you chose to seek joy even during confusion and went from being shy to shining on stage. ❤️ You taught me that courage can happen to anyone. It doesn’t require us to be the smartest, strongest, richest, or most powerful superhero on the planet. It just requires us to show up. And sweet girl, there’s nobody I know who shows up to their life more than you do. ❤️ I know life might feel overwhelming right now, it does for me too. There’s a lot going on. But I also know that inside of you is that 20 seconds of courage that has given you power to do the next hard thing, all throughout your life. ❤️ I love you with all of my heart and soul, and I’m praying that each day we choose to live with courage, is a day closer to seeing each other again. ❤️ We’re not complete or whole without you. And I’m so excited for this baby to get to meet you one day. Even though we’re not physically together, I want you to know that you’re inspiring and motivating me to choose courage, every single day. Love you to the moon. You’re the one who taught me how to get through the hard stuff ❤️

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Joutui sairaalaan

Tutkimukset osoittivat sikiön voivan hyvin. Ashley sai tietää kivun johtuvan infektiosta munuaisessa. Vaarana oli, että odottava äiti saisi infektiosta vakavan verenmyrkytyksen. Lääkärit olivat optimistisia tilanteen suhteen. Ashley ei kuitenkaan päässyt pelon tunteestaan eroon.

Ashley jäi sairaalaan tarkkailtavaksi. Hänen miehensä ei päässyt osastolle. Ashleyn tilanne huononi entisestään ja vatsakivut voimistuivat. Hän ymmärsi, ettei sikiöllä ollut kaikki hyvin.

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❤️ When we moved back to Arizona in November, we knew it was time to continue to grow our family. On NYE I was boxing and got so sick and dizzy that I almost went in to the hospital. For a few days I felt different, and one day after eating my usual eggs and avocado toast, I got so sick I had to run to the bathroom. I decided to take a pregnancy test to just rule that out for the month… ❤️ The test I had was the most flimsy thing you’ve ever seen 😂 A faint double line appeared and I ran into @mikelemieux office and said, I need you to go to the store right now and buy two different pregnancy tests! ❤️ This video is what happened next. I always thought I’d tell Mike in a cute way… but it was too overwhelming to wait another second! ❤️ Thanks for all of your love you guys. This babe is sure going to have a ton of internet Aunties 😭💕

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Pysäyttävä uutinen

Hoitaja teki perusteellisen ultraäänitutkimuksen, mutta hän ei kuullut sikiön sydänääniä. Ashley halusi tietää sikiön tilanteesta, mutta hoitaja ei saanut kertoa mitään ennen lääkärin lausuntoa.

Ashley joutui odottamaan lääkärin virallista lausuntoa kuullakseen lapsensa kuolemasta. Sikiö oli lakannut hengittämästä.

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I can’t believe it’s been a week since I delivered my baby boy. I miss him so much it physically hurts. ❤️ Something happened in the hospital that has given me hope, that I want to share with you. Every time a baby was born, a little lullaby would play throughout the entire hospital. I noticed it my first night there, and it gave me so much peace, fighting for my life knowing that in a couple months the lullaby would play for my own baby. It gave me courage to withstand the pain that overtook my entire body. • But then Jayce didn’t make it, and right after I delivered him, all alone in my room, the lullaby came on. I sobbed. It wasn’t supposed to be that way. It wasn’t time for his lullaby yet. The rest of our time at the hospital, I’d hear the lullaby play multiple times a day. Instead of bringing pain, @mikelemieux and I found tremendous peace and comfort every time we heard the lullaby. It filled me with hope, in a time of intense agony. It reminded me that life still grows, that there is still joy, and love still exists, even in our darkest moments. It was my promise that life is still surrounding me. ❤️ Every day since we left the hospital, I look for the lullaby’s throughout my day. Sometimes it’s the sun coming up, or the butterfly that flutters past my window, other times it’s my husbands laugh or the feeling of my own smile breaking through. ❤️ I know that life might seem impossible for you right now. I know that it might freaking hurt like hell, and you might be really scared. But maybe there are some little lullaby’s that are still surrounding you, that can remind you that life, joy, growth, and love, still overpower the darkness. Listen for the lullaby today.

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Synnytys

Ashley oli vasta raskauden alkuvaiheessa menetettyään lapsensa. Hän joutui synnyttämään kuolleen lapsensa. Ashley synnytti poikavauvan aikaisin aamulla 27. maaliskuuta. Poikavauva ei saanut jäädä äitinsä luokse.

Ashley kertoi avoimesti tapahtuneesta sosiaalisessa mediassa. Hän haluaa lisätä tietoisuutta asiasta ja auttaa lapsensa menettäneitä naisia ja pariskuntia.

”Virus vei minulta humaanisuuteni ja ymmärsin ihmisen todellisen tarpeen saada tukea, apua ja pitää kädestä kiinni traumaattisessa tilanteessa”, kirjoittaa Ashley.

Ashley hyvästeli lapsensa yhdessä miehensä kanssa. Lapsi sai nimekseen Jayce.

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Our precious baby boy, Jayce Michael LeMieux, was delivered at 9:40 on Friday morning. ❤️ The name Jayce means ‘Healer’. That’s exactly who Jayce has been for us. This baby healed us in ways we never thought we’d experience again, and showed us that there is a beautiful life that is still waiting for us to live. Our hearts are cracked wide open again, but this time, we have Jayce as a guardian angel to help light our way. ❤️ At 16 weeks gestation, his body was perfect and healthy, but unfortunately, mine was not. The extent that the sepsis rapidly took over my body created a scenario in which we both couldn’t stay alive. It was too much to have a pregnancy withstand, and is something that is going to take a very long time for me to come to terms with. ❤️ He came quickly and unexpectedly, and I delivered him all alone in a room that was never meant to deliver babies. I sobbed and screamed on my bed, yelling to God that it wasn’t supposed to be this way, as I waited for a group of doctors to come help me. ❤️ After I delivered him, they rushed me to the Labor and Delivery unit of the hospital, which meant that my husband @mikelemieux could finally have permission to come and be with me after days of me fighting alone for my life in the hospital. (I’ll talk more about this later). ❤️ We’re still in the hospital, my body has a lot of healing to do. We spent precious time with our baby boy this morning to say our final goodbyes. His little hat fits in the palm of his daddy’s hand. ❤️ We love you Jayce. I can’t wait for the day I get to hold you in my arms. I wish that I could be where you are. #LeMieuxFamilyOfFive

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